I've decided not to bore people with another of my incessantly naggy and long post on movies with history themes... (which people have a huge propensity to ignore anyway... )

ANYWAY....

I should juz go back to the mundane and back to the present..

Something came to mind today.... that is the use of "codes" within a group of friends...

As in... when people know each other for too long... they tend to develop language that is only understood if you belong to that clique.

Because of these codes, there is increasing difficulty for people to make true friends as they grow older. For these codes like our common language (whether it is English or Mandarin or Cantonese) needs to develop over time.

So.. sometimes... when friends know each other long enough, things that happened in the past became part of their lexicon.

Erm.. OK... why am I sayin this... I recalled a stupid conversation with REBEL not long ago.. haa

Basically... we spoke metaphorically..

In MY personal vocab... "radiating" means missing someone dearly till the extent that people do not have to ask what are you thinking. It's like they can FEEL the "aura of yearning" around you. Hence... er hem... radiation... coz the person will be "radiating" "waves of yearning".

(damn... i m philosophical... hahaha)

So.... there was this day.. I showed a friend's blog to Rebel...

Me: Look... this guy is really in love... look at all those words used... read the post on Monday..

(OK... I admit... this is a very stupid thing to do... but the weather is cold and I am bored.. so hey.. why not look at others' blog.. share the fun~)

REBEL: OK.. (she read) another interesting fact from her... guys have sexual thoughts every six seconds.. so I tried countin...

1.. 2... 3.. 4.. 5.. you
1..2... 3.. 4... 5... food

(er blah blah blah... anyway.. in the end.. he calculated LITERALLY.. that every second he was counting 1 2 3 4.. he's thinkin about the gal.. n so there is a lapse of how-many-how-many seconds before he had a sexual thought and how-many-how-many seconds he spent thinking of her)

(sorry to be mean here... but.. hey... I can't stand too mushy stuff... gives me the goosebumps..)

ME: Er.. isnt he radiatin too much?

REBEL: erm.. if yours is call radiating... he is an atomic bomb.

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OKIE... I am now in search of the nuclear warheads.

P.S. Well.. if my friend happened to read this. DO NOT KILL ME. hahaa...